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Why do we get sick? Why Can't We Heal?

....OR... CAN WE?

THURSDAY TRILOGIES (Mind, Body, Soul Healings) PRESENTS: Why do we get sick? Why can't we heal? or can we?

 

Well Hello there... I am hoping that you are surviving the distractions of Mercury Retrograde!

So many people are messaging me with stories of hard times, hurt feelings, things spinning and spiraling... and asking me "Why me?" in the past week ....

 

And then....

 

Others are messaging and calling me to ask what is going on right now.. saying that they can feel energetic changes within themselves and a lot of old crap from long long ago that they felt they had already let go and healed....

 

but it is seeping into their every thought, every move... every second.

 

I smile and say...

 

"Yep... I know.... Universe is guiding ALL OF US right now to release and heal everything that we are carrying that doesn't carry the energy of unconditional Love and positive energy within ourselves.

 

Right now (until January 8), Mercury is in retrograde.. which means this is a time energetically for many mis-understandings, mis-haps.... and it is a time when all of our outward energy gets turned right back around and is sent inward (almost immediately)...

 

This is a time when whether we like it or not, we are faced with taking a good hard look in the mirror....

 

and as always....taking a magnifying glass to yourself can be unnerving; there's a good chance we'll find things we either didn't want to see or have been trying not to acknowledge.

 

This time around, Mercury is stationed in Capricorn — the sign that's intertwined with our goals, our life path, and the way in which we structure our lives. It's also the sign of the patriarchy and big business, which implies some big changes within the major cultural structures of the world (as if we didn't already know that, though).

 

SO right now... we are all supposed to be truly healing ourselves an figuring out what isn't working in our lives.....

 

Because like I have been saying in the past week or so...

 

2017 is energetically a year of "New Beginnings" in such a major way...

 

Even more then any of us can comprehend as Human Beings!

 

So if these things, situations, hurts, struggles, patterns, traumas, and messings are coming to the surface hard core...

 

Know that it is your guides, your Angels, Your higher self....

 

Trying to help you to see and understand...

 

So that you can start off with a truly clean slate come January 9th...

 

So that you are truly in a state of gratitude for your blessings, harmony, Balances, and inner peace with your self and your life's path...

 

So that the New Year will bring big and significant happy and prosperous change to you and yours!

 

Are you ready for a happy and fulfilling life?

 

Are you tired of living in struggle and a sense of lack?

 

Are you done telling the stories of the hurts of your past?

 

Because until you truly acknowledge and learn the lessons that your soul was sent here to learn from your misfortunes...

 

Until you take full responsibility for your part that you have played in any and all of your traumas in your life...

 

You will continue (I promiseyou...) to struggle, hurt, stumble..... and have a hard time finding joy in the little blessings in your life.

 

IT"S ALL ABOUT VIBRATION!

ENERGY!!!

 

And as we all know the energy in an all around us is the representative of the energy in our subconscious minds!

 

Think of it as a bank account...

 

Let's Say when you are born... you are given $100 in your energetic bank account, ok?

 

And then for every single limiting belief you are taught, you lose $5

 

When you believe other people's un-empowering words about you... you lose $5

 

For every single negative word that is said to you or about you (by others and by yourself) you lose $10

 

For every single person you are angry at or spewing negative thoughts or words... subtract $15

Not to mention the traumas you have experienced... those you will lose $20 each!

 

So by the time most of us are adults.... we have been living with an overdrawn energetic "Bank" account for many years!

 

Some who are more fortunate and were raised in a home where there is unconditional Love and non-judgement....

 

May still have some funds left... but due to society and the outside world are still low on the balance.....

 

Now think about what the lack of energy, or the overwhelming negative energy in our banks will do to our physical bodies!!

 

It's not good is it?

 

Most every single physical ailment and dis-ease we face in our physical human bodies is due to the energy flow being blocked.... or the lack of energy flow... because Negative energy is so much more dense and heavy than positive and loving energy!

 

SO....

 

For those of you, who have a shit ton of traumas you have experienced....

 

So too are the crap load of physical aches and pains, right?

 

Your physical pain, is ultimately attributed to emotional pain, ALmost Always (with some exceptions to the rules that I will explain in a bit....)

 

AND.....

 

Emotional pain CAN BE HEALED and released.....you guys!!!

It's a matter of figuring out what is causing your pain emotionally and truly forgiving yourself or others for trespasses....

 

AND......

 

Learning what your soul was meant to learn from the experiences....

 

Letting go of beliefs that do not empower your soul (letting more empowering beliefs take their place).....

 

Asking your Divine Team for help and guidance....

 

and then....

 

TAKING YOUR POWER (ENERGY BACK).....

 

Building up that energetic.....bank account... so it is overflowing with ABUNDANCE.......

FOR GOOD!!!!!

 

Want to get every $5, $10, $15, and $20 withdrawl re-deposited??????

 

Welll good.... because you sure can!

 

You see in order to heal, we must change our minds!

 

We cannot heal our bodies and souls with the same mind that created the sickness!!!

As we are sent guidance and we truly look deeply in that mirror and truly tap in to what is ailing us....

 

We must change our minds...

 

From living in the Victim mentality (AKA woundology according to Carolyn Myss, phD; who wrote the book called "Why People don't heal and how they can.... which I suggest that every one of you read....if you are physically sick).....

 

To living in the truths of owning your own mistakes, taking responsibility for your own life.....

AND....

 

TRULY HEALING SO YOU CAN CREATE YOUR OWN LOVING AND UPLIFTING REALITY!!!!

 

You see...

 

According to Carolyn, in this life changing book.....

 

There are 5 myths to healing...

and "The most effective way to break the controlling force of a myth is to recognize that you personally believe it!"

 

As you read through each of these "Myths", ask yourself "Do I believe this?"

 

Because if you do... then it is a matter of finding what works best for YOU (such as prayers, rituals...and forming new thought patterns) in order to release the grip that these have had on your sub-conscious minds.......

 

Know that she states in the book "No Myth ever goes away without a fight"...

 

But...

 

Intention to change your mind will change your life for the better.....

 

Because when you can truly break free of the beliefs that are making you sick.....

 

YOU HeAL THYSELF>....

 

1) LIFE IS DEFINED BY MY WOUND(s)

Although this is an easier way to be.... and it leaves us as humans in the energy of being able to lean on others and have limited responsibility for our lives....

It gives us great stories to tell others in order to have them say "Awww.. Im so sorry that happened to you!"

But when you are living in the victim mentality.... you continue to pull the "Victim" lifestyle into your reality.

YOU ARE NOT A VICTIM..... you are way more then just your traumas and hard times....

You guys.... we may not always understand at the human level why bad things happen to us...and we may not always be able to comprehend the lessons involved at the time..

But know that everything happens FOR A REASON....

It is up to you to pull up those big girl and big boy britches and not let this define you!

RELEASE the hurt.. give it to God to understand.... and thank the Universe for the lessons....

AND MOVE ON...

you are alive, you are well (yes you are!), and you are truly blessed o be here on Earth!

Are you going to continue to let the negative energy of this destroy you?

Or are you going to get back to the basics of forgiving, forgetting, and ....

Healing these things, so that you can live in a much more positive mindset (helping others who have yet to face the things you already have)..

Because I know that the horrible traumas I have faced in my life were all lessons for me to learn and I also truly believe I went through them, so that I can help others get through them like a boss!!!!!

 

2) BEING HEALTHY MEANS BEING ALONE

Yes, it is true that only you (Alone) can determine whether you are "healthy" mind, body, and soul...

And yes it is true that we must face our burdons head on by ourselves....

However.... by having the mentality that once you have done so....

you don't ever let anyone else in....

as to protect yourself from further hardships and traumas....

Creates the energy of separation.. which is lonely and fearful.

We all know what happens when we carry the energy of fear!

AND..... those of us with more developed souls know for sure that WE ARE ALL ONE.....

Everything in the Universe is ONE....

WE ARE ALL ENERGETICALLY INTER-CONNeCTeD......

When we heal ourselves... so too do we help heal and pull positive energy into the masses!

Also keep in mind, just because you have healed yourself, doesn't mean you do not need friends and family to help bring joy and happiness into your life..

But the good news is that after we heal and learn (grow)..

We make smarter and more uplifting choices for ourselves..

AND...

Since our vibrations are higher than they were when we were sick...

We attract better people and situations into our lives.....

Yesit's ture.... you are truly the only one that can "stand on YOUR own 2 feet"...

But... healing isn't a one time thing... it is an ongoing everyday for the rest of your life(style) kind of thing!

 

3) FEELING PAIN MEANS BEING DESTROYED BY PAIN

So many people are terrified to even let the thoughts and feelings we have worked so hard to stuff down even think about coming to the surface to be "Felt"...

I am not going to bullshit you...

PAIN HURTS... DEEPLY... AND BADLY!

And after we "Change our minds" and decide that we are ready to heal ourselves and move forward in our lives....

The actual process of "Feel it to heal it" can be very scary....

BUt, the only way that we will ever be able to heal from these things is to let it come up.. let our minds think about it for a bit...

Think about it completely... what happened? Who did it? How did it (or does it) feel?

I know I always say this to you, but SEE The BIGGER PICTURE...

If someone has victimized you (or so you think)....

WHY?

WHat would make someone do those things to you?

Have empathy and compassion for the person who hurt you (yes you heard me correctly....)

Because the other thing I repeat over and over is...

HURt PEOPLE HURt PEOPLE......

And so when you truly forgive and send compassion and love to the person in question (even if it is yourself).....

You release the negative energy of the situation and change your mind into the belief that everyone is human and deserves love and compassion.. EVERYONE!

Ask yourself...

What part do I have in this whole thing?

What choices and decision(s) did I make that made this happen in my life?

AND THEN FORGIVE YOURSELF TOO>..

Feel the emotions that come up with all of this... and then ask your guides and angels for strength....

and then...

LET IT GO........

Send the negative energy and emotions into the light...

GIVE them TO GOD!

So it can no longer destroy your happiness and Joy!!!

Let something positive and loving take its place!

Even if it is the positive energy you feel because you are willing to forgive....

truly forgive... Like Jesus always did (and does)....

 

4) ALL ILLNESS IS THE RESULT OF NEGATIVITY AND WE ARE DAMAGED AT OUR CORES

Although I tell you that Sickness and physical ailments are caused by Negative energy...

I don't necesarily mean that it is only negative emotions....

YES.. negative emotions are a huge component here...

BUT.... sickness and dis-ease is a complex thing...

There is "Negative Energy" in our environments too...

such as toxins and chemicals that we put into our bodies; like processed foods that are truly not digestible in our digestive systems... our bodies cannot recognize chemicals and preservatives as "Food".... so they sit in our systems and literally poison us...

I cannot seem to get this across to people enough...

YOU ARE WHAT YOU EAT.....

When it comes to health of the physical body...

there is energy in everything we eat.. be it positive or negative...

ANother thing is the body care products we put on our skin....

if you are using store bought chemically made products... know they are going into your blood stream and making you sick....

ANother thing that helps is to make sure instead of always remember the bad past experiences...

that you are remember and bringing forth the positive and wonderful past experiences too!!!

KeeP YOUr energY positiVE PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY...

Just like everything else... we get out of our bodies what we put into it!

Stop telling yourself you are damaged..... because you are not!

A good example of this ....

I have Degenerative Disc Disease (which is hereditary and that is another way of people getting sick that has nothing to so with Negative emotions)

A lot of people in my family have this and some of them are subject to a life of laying around and letting the pain of this physical ailment be their life...

NOT ME THOUGH...

Because although my spine (according to my fiance') looks like a train wreck on a MRI....

and it deteriorates more and more with each year I age....

I am more physically active now then when I was 21 and first diagnosed....

WHY?

Because I have the mindset that I refuse to let this define me!

I tell myself and my body daily that I am HEALThy...happy.. AND whole!

Last July (2016) I woke up in the middle of the night almost paralyzed one night... and ended up with a disc that had ruptured so badly that the actual disc (the cushion between the bones in your spine) was physically thrown out of place and landed smack dab on top of my sciatic nerve....

I was told I may never walk again....

I was told, as I have been told many times since my early 20's that this was it... the end of the road for me and my legs....

I would be wheelchair bound indefinitely...

Because this time the damage to my spine had just gone too far....

Well...

That wasn't a good answer for me (that was the time when I decided to read the book I am talking about today.. since I was laid up... I was looking for answers on how to move past this and surprise everyone!)

I continued (even though the pain was so excruciating) to tell myself and my body that I was healthy....

Every day I would surround myself with White Light and ANgel Energy...

I called Jesus and his amazing healing energy to myself ......

I laid awake every night for a month while I was laid up and prayed to God, my Angels, Guides.... for a miracle!

I meditated and sent any and all negative energy surrounding this situation away.... into the light.

I focused on my blessings and stayed positive....

and IT WORKED!!!!

The doctors were AMAZED by my healing.....

I ended up being able to cancel appointments that were scheduled a month out... because I was back on my feet!!!!

The MIND IS SUCH A POWERFUL THING!

 

5) CHANGE IS TRULY IMPOSSIBLE

I have to LAUGH OUT LOUD at that one...

Because although change is HARD... change is UNCOMFORTABLE....change is SCARY AS HELL....

BUT>.....

Change is necessary and with true willingness to change....

comes TRUE HEALING!

Just like me and my spine situation.....

Did I have to change some things about my everyday living?

yes..... did I have to take a step back and try to figure out what have caused this to happen...

Yes......

But when I did... MIRACLES HAPPENED!

WHen we change our minds and decide that we are not sick...

We are in fact whole, healthy, and completely happy!!!!

It may seem impossible, because when change is needed... it has many facets.....

BUt.... one day at a time... one negative thought or belief changed to a more empowering one at a time....one healthy habit formed at a time...

and one person one action, one trauma FORGIVEN at a time....

before we know it, our life just went from MESSINGS TO BLESSINGS (that were always there.. we just had to change our minds to see them!)

You guys...

Life is a journey....

We can either get stuck in the mud....

or we can jump in the puddles and have fun!

IT IS UP TO YOU!!

 

Have a wonderful rest of your day and know that I am always here if you ever want to reach out for support.....If you would like an appointment with me to sit down and plan out your healing process..... please call or message!

 

sending you into your day with Strength, Courage, and the power to change your minds and heal your ailments!!!

 

XOXOXOXO

~ Becky Jo~

 

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