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KEEPING THE "MERRY" in CHristmas......

...and the "Blessed" in Solstice

SATURDAY SOLUTIONS presents: Keeping The "Merry" in Christmas and the "Blessed" in Solstice

MERRY - HAPPY - BLESSED whatever Holiday you are Celebrating today!!

 

I would like to take the time to personally send you energy of the brightest of White Light, The Joyful (est) of emotions, and the Peaceful (est) of harmonious blessings today as we finally reach the finish line of the preparations and the beginning of the 2016 Holidays (unless you celebrate Solstice and then you are in full swing as this day begins)....

 

I want you all to take time out this morning in reflection of what your year has been,, how you have grown...the blessings you have received (and still continue to receive daily)...

 

...and the people who love you unconditionally!

 

Even if you are not where you want to be by now.... you are definitely not where you were a year ago...

 

And for that, please be Great-FULL!

 

As most of you know, I am someone who is typically always positive and mostly always can find the blessings in the lessons that life has to offer...

 

But, because I too am human, there are times when I struggle to even find positive energy in my frustrations of day to day life (I'm sure you can relate)...

 

It is during these challenging times in our lives when we should be taking the time and energy to see the bigger picture and ask God, your guides and Angels, your spirit "What are you trying to tell me?" and...

 

"What can I learn from this?"

 

For me, I have celebrated "Christmas" every single year of my life; although I also share in the celebrations of Solstice....

 

Christmas hasn't always been a magic and wonderful time for me and there have been many a "Christmas" that have brought sadness, depression, grief, and sorrow for me in the past....

 

There have been many "Christmases" where I have found myself alone and not feeling so cheery .....

 

not feeling like celebrating anything....

 

Because what I didn't know at the time was that my soul was going through growth and transformation...

 

I was being taught to find the blessings in my messings...

 

I know this now!

 

You see, as a child, there were more then one Christmas eve's where I was excited for Santa to come and wanted so much to be around that tree with song and celebration and all of the magic that is is supposed to bring to children everywhere....

 

BUT....

 

My Mother didn't come home from the bar and my siblings and I felt so alone and unappreciated!

 

However, there were many more of them as a child where she was there and she made it more than magic for us!

 

When I was a young adult, there were several years, during my "Rock Bottom", where my family had turned their backs on me (due to the Man I was with who loved it that way)....

 

Which left me feeling so unloved and Unfullfilled...

 

But..... there were many more where I shared in the celebrations with them and my little children....

 

As a more mature adult, there were many times, where my parents would go somewhere on Christmas Eve where I wasn't invited......because not all the siblings in my family liked each other...

 

and I found myself struck with loneliness and separation!

 

I felt so unworthy and lost!

 

Although there were many more where we all shared in the joy of the Holiday, together in unity as a family!

 

There was a Christmas when my children were little that I had lost my job and literally couldn't buy them ANYTHING...

 

So I had to submit myself to receiving the free gifts that others had donated for people in my situation...

 

and my children didn't even get one thing they wanted that year...

 

IT BROKE MY HEART....

 

I felt so helpless and worthless......

 

But... it was only one year and looking at it in retrospect.....

 

That was probably the most blessed Christmas we ever had, because it was about charity and paying it forward.....

 

That was the year that taught me how important it is to GIVE TO OTHERS.....

 

THE TRUE MEANING OF THE SEASON IS GIVING< NOT RECEIVING........

 

Are you getting the picture here?

 

Let's be honest here.. every single one of us has faced Holidays where we didn't feel so "Merry" or "Blessed" at the time.

 

I am certain that every single one of you has a story of a Holiday where you faced challenges and/or felt very depressed.....

 

For many different reasons....

 

Maybe you have loved ones (parents....grand-parents...siblings...children....aunts..uncles..cousins...etc) who cannot be with you anymore, because they have made their transition into spirit....

 

OR....

 

Some of you feel sad, because you have loved ones in jail or prison.....

 

and to be completely honest, many people just do not have ANYONE to celebrate with, and that makes it just as hard!

 

Now that I am in my Higher self most of the time, I can look back on all of the hard times and struggles of my life and see crystal clear that every single one of the situations I have described to you about my life were opportunities for me to grow, learn, and look at it from a different perspective...

 

You see it was never about others or gifts, or hard times at all....

 

Every single one of those situations was God's way of teaching me to love myself, to See the blessings in everything, to appreciate what I had, to learn the lessons he is trying to teach me....

 

and most of all...

 

Life and holidays are not defined by who you spend them with or what you do....

 

It is not about holding on to the memories of the hard times and struggles...

 

BUT...

 

FINDING THE MAGIC IN THE WONDERFUL TIMES!

 

SO why do we always seem to remember the not so "Merry" or "Blessed" holidays way more then we do the HAPPY ones?

 

It is because when we are living in our EGO selves.... the negative and dark energies of "Trauma" and "Struggle" cannot wait to convince us that we are nothing....noone.... NOT BLESSED!

 

However, if we are truly living in our hearts and feeling the positive energy of "The higher self"....

 

and when we look at the deeper meaning, the bigger picture....

 

we can start to see that no matter what...

 

WE ARE BLESSED BEYOND MEASURE!

 

We may not have had the Holiday we wanted to have...

 

But we lived through it, we learned from it... we grew and evolved!

 

We are stronger for it.....!!!!!

 

SO as you go into the day today and tomorrow....

 

and for the next week or so for some....

 

PLEASE....

 

I am asking you to stop feeling depressed and down!

 

STOP...... bringing in the stories of past hurts and traumas..

 

Let them GO!

 

Instead.. focus on the blessings you do have, the people who do love you (even if that is only yourself... love yourself.. be gentle on yourself..be kind!)

 

Ask yourself why those past hard times are still affecting you and what you are supposed to learn from it...

 

so you can .....MOVe ON in joy!

 

Please be in an energy of Gratitude today... because when you are great-full for what you have.. blessings flow freely to you!

 

Remember if you are Celebrating Christmas....

 

That it is not about the PrESENTS......

 

IT IS ABOUT THE PrESENCE.......

 

of Jesus in your life and living in your higher self!

 

This is the Day that Jesus was born unto all of us (whether you are a follower of him or not....please respect those of us who do!)

 

This is his BIRTHDAY!!!!

 

He only wants us to see the good times and remember who we truly are in spirit!

 

He is asking us all to be of good cheer and Celebrate his birthday with him.... with love and respect!

 

And he wants us all to rejoice and be MERRY and BLESSED!

 

Jesus was sent here to Earth to teach us all the deeper meaning of unconditional love.......

 

Especially unconditionally loving others who don't love us back...

 

and those who can't find love in themselves...

 

But mostly to see the unconditional love and understanding he has for each one of us....

 

He wants us to unconditionally love OURSELVES.... today and always!

 

So be joyful, Merry, and Blessed today... because you are all of these things more then you will ever know!

 

Sending you all into your days with eyes that can see beyond the veil of illusion of struggle and lack...

 

Hearts that can feel the love that Jesus has for each and every one of us....

 

and the ability to look past our bad experiences.... and bring magic to our hearts and souls!

 

The true deeper meaning of this holiday season, if you are truly carrying it n your soul....

 

Will help you see that it was never about the gifts and food, and people in the first place!

 

Have a wonderful day everyone!!!!!

 

From my soul to yours...

 

~ Becky Jo~

 

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